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Paige's avatar

All of your points are valid and need to be shared. This is one place I love to be apart of to hear new ideas.

I would just like to point out one very small point that I learned a long time ago. When you are dealing with that one person who is making your day seem so horrible I want you to think about this! You don’t know what happened earlier in their day that has made them seem so mean to you. If we just take the time to think about this you cannot only turn their day around, but your day too. This has worked for me. Instead of creating division I have then created an ally. One small step forward can change the world. You can change the world. Instead of being divided we come together and this gets passed onto the next person and the next. Try not to sweat the small stuff that we. Like your car breaking down you have already created an ally who will help you just because you have been kind to them when their day was horrible or seemed too much to handle. It’s a small start, but it creates the biggest change.

My personal experience is when I was working for a bank. Some customers were just awful so I thought. They were just having a bad day, or something happened just before they came to see me. Well yes they were upset or even screaming at me. It really wasn’t me that they were upset with. I just asked them what happened earlier that made them so upset and it wasn’t me that they were angry with. I listened to what happened and they started to apologize. I said no need to apologize to me, because I didn’t do anything but listen. That’s how I gained allies. Every single time I saw them afterwards they would smile so big and ask me about my day and I’d do the same. When I decided to go back to college and leave the bank they threw me a party. I certainly didn’t expect anything from them and they had become part of my family. So why not start small and end up standing together.

Thank you for reading my words. Have an amazing day today and tomorrow and the next day too.

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Christina Gurchinoff's avatar

Today was a good day. Thankful to have one of those now and then.

Omg landlords…Working on it.

Thanks for all your encouragement with details. Much appreciated.

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